Modern Dating Is Broken Event

Something is breaking,
and most of us can feel it.

Marriage rates are at historic lows. More people are single than ever. Birth rates are collapsing across the world. Men and women are more frustrated with each other than at any point in modern memory.

And almost every conversation about it turns into a fight about whose fault it is.

It's nobody's fault. And it's everybody's problem.

This isn't a class about who's right or wrong. There isn't a clear right or wrong here, and the longer we pretend there is, the longer we stay stuck.

This is a class about what's actually happening underneath this moment. Told through evolutionary psychology, biology, real studies and data, history, and a spiritual lens for what this moment is asking of us as a species.

If you've felt confused by modern dating, if the rules seem to have changed and nobody told you, if you've felt unseen in conversations that should have made you feel less alone, this is for you.

This is the conversation we should have been having all along.

The Outcomes

What you'll leave with

This isn't a 90-minute complaint about dating. We're going to look at the full picture, then move into what to actually do with it.

A real understanding of what's happening

drawn from evolutionary psychology, biology, history, and current data. Real studies. Not Instagram opinions.

A spiritual lens

on what this moment is asking of us, individually and as a species.

Five reframes about modern love

that almost nobody is saying out loud.

Real actions you can take

in your dating life and relationships, starting the day after the class.

Language and frameworks

for having these conversations with the people in your life without it turning into another fight.

Compassion

for yourself and for the other side of an experience almost everybody is in, and almost nobody feels seen inside of.

Questions & Answers

A few honest questions

You'll leave with both. The first part of the class is an honest look at what's actually happening and why. The second part is what to do with that understanding. Real actions. Real language. Real ways to navigate this in your own life and in your conversations with other people.

Not in the usual sense. It's a class about why dating feels the way it does and what's underneath the cultural moment we're in. There are practical takeaways, but this is closer to a teaching than a tactical playbook.

Both. The class names what's happening on both sides of the dating dynamic. The goal is for everyone in the room to leave with more clarity, more compassion, and more language for talking to each other.

No. Show up curious. That's enough.

Most of what we'll cover applies to anyone in or thinking about partnership. The dynamics underneath dating don't disappear once you're committed. They just take new shapes.

No refunds.

I'll mention what I have coming up, but this is not an event intended to sell you anything directly.

Modern Dating Is Broken

Something is breaking,
and most of us can feel it.